Sad new, but good news

Post by **Masterman** » Wed Apr 23, 2008 4:30 pm

My grandmother, Helen G. MacDowell took her last breath this morning while her nurses aids were at the comfort of her side in her own room and house she has lived in since 1942. She was 93 years old and went quick, painless and effortlessly. I got to see her 2 weeks ago and immediately knew her death was inevitable. Sure enough I get a call yesterday evening from my father informing me that she was not eating or drinking anything and hospice estimated a 24-36 hour time of death. I was informed by my father at 10:12 AM this morning that she had passed.

I am anything but sad, because I know she lived a long and very prosperous life. I am actually happy that she went the way she did, because that's how I want to go; unexpectedly and inevitably. So please, no need to comfort me, I just figured I'd let all of you know the situation in case I dissappear suddenly due to funeral and/or family related events.

I will post the official obituary once it has been composed and publically released.

Wed Apr 23, 2008 4:47 pm

still going to give you a (((((((((((((((((( hug ))))))))))))))))))))))))

I am glad too she went at her own home and that she went peacefully.

Oldsparky · Post by **Oldsparky** » Wed Apr 23, 2008 6:11 pm

Its always sad to lose a family member no matter at what age. You are indeed fortunate to have had her for so long. Sounds like she had a long full life. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Blonde · Post by **Blonde** » Wed Apr 23, 2008 11:12 pm

my sincerest condolences....
I'm truly sorry for your loss.....I was with my grandmother when she moved on...It isnt easy... but when you Do look back at a life that was full and eventful it makes you ahppy and proud to have been part of it.
I am happy for you that you had a wonderful grandma and you were able to see her before she passed. I know you will miss her.... just TREASURE each and every single memory you have of her...
Take care my friend....
My thoughts are with you

Post by **Cactus** » Wed Apr 23, 2008 11:37 pm

Best wishes to you and your family. And your gramdma, what a lucky gal living a long life and happy life!

Still though, tough to see a loved one go. I'm glad you're at peace with it.

Best wishes,
TJ

Post by **OoiGooEE** » Fri Apr 25, 2008 1:00 am

I'm saddened for your loss but am glad that it was on her terms. Be at Peace.
OOiGooEE

Post by **wever.nl-(DOG)-** » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:44 am

Arrrggg...thats sad news Louis

... srry to hear it.

Take care man!!

Post by **Masterman** » Fri Apr 25, 2008 3:12 pm

Thanks guys for all the replies!!!

Here is the obituary:

http://www.legacy.com/theledger/Obituar ... =108321305

Oldsparky · Post by **Oldsparky** » Fri Apr 25, 2008 5:24 pm

"She was a choir director for Westminster Presbyterian Church in Lakeland for over 20 years. "

Ah yes, a lady with a song. Your lucky indeed Louis.

Fri Apr 25, 2008 6:45 pm

Masterman wrote:Thanks guys for all the replies!!!

Here is the obituary:

http://www.legacy.com/theledger/Obituar ... =108321305

She had a wonderful and full life. Thank you for sharing her with us.

Post by **Wisdom(DOG)** » Tue Apr 29, 2008 4:24 am

Love and Peace, you couldn't ask for more brother and it sounds like she had both. This has been....